Fetish, Macabre and Dark Nights – you have been warned!!
On a cold Wednesday night in January, when most people were rushing to go home or to meet their friends/lovers at a pub nearby, I stood in front of a normal looking house somewhere deep in West London. I was feeling a bit nervous but excited about what lay on the other side of the [...]
Back in January, when the world was..... hmmm....relatively normal, I wanted to start writing more product reviews. I felt like all I did back then was talk about my nightlife (which I am missing terribly) and I wanted to branch out a bit. Well, it has taken me some time, but I have finally spent [...]
I think we can all agree that this year has been an interesting one, to say the very least. Lockdown has affected us all differently, and as the world starts to open up again, we are all entering this new world a little bit different, our perspective changed from the last few months. Personally, lockdown [...]
Can someone explain to me how I have been blogging all things BDSM for 18 months and I am yet to talk about what could possible well be my favourite toy? Hmm.... something obviously went wrong there! As the title says, one of my favourite toys is my beloved violet wand. I say 'one of [...]
I guess when I imagined a time where my life would become virtual, I had the idea that it would be like something out of Blade Runner or Total Recall. Little did I know back then that my virtual social life would consist of business apps, people who don't know where the mute button is, [...]
*warning - this is another one of my rambling posts and it has nothing to do with fetish, so skip this one if you are not interesting in reading about pointless stuff about me* I am not one for motivation speeches and TED talks (I hate them, don't ask me why, I just do), but [...]
Another week, another idea to keep us busy while the world tries to battle this nasty virus. Today I want to talk about Dominance & Submission, and how this lockdown can be the perfect opportunity to venture into this fetish, specially if you and your partner are not in lockdown together. D/s forms one of [...]
Well, it seems finally our government is taking things a bit more seriously and closing down non-essential establishment, and asking people to stay home. I know 'social distancing' can be a challenge for many, especially if you live alone, but if you are lucky enough to live with your partner/s, then this can be the [...]
The unexpected happened last weekend. You know all that talk about me not wanting to be in the receiving end of impact play anymore? Well, it seems I am a true Gemini after all because that is exactly what happened last Friday. I guess I should explain, shouldn't I? On Friday we went to 'Mischief [...]
Christmas Ball, December 2018. That was the last Torture Garden I attended. By then, TG had lost it soul venue, The Coronet, as was using the venue that every one and their mother was using [Electrowerks]. Events started to feel tired, monotonous and lacked an edge. It was then that I decided to bypass TG [...]
