Fetish, Macabre and Dark Nights – you have been warned!!
Oh boy, am I behind on reviews! Shall we get started? So last month I finally ventured to Seeking Venus. I say 'finally' because I've been hearing a lot of positive things about it, but they are only ran once or twice a year and we all know how bad I am at planning, so [...]
Before deep diving into the juicy parts of this post, I feel I need to give y'all some context as to where I have been/what's been going on with my life recently, or else this entire post may be confusing to those who follow this website. For the past few months I have been dating [...]
In November last year I took the decision to take a few months off from clubbing and fetish in general while I was dealing with some pretty rough stuff at home. And whilst that time off was very much needed, I must admit that my body and soul were asking for a good old night [...]
Well hello there, how you been? I know, I know...I have been gone a while. I guess you could say that I had some serious adulting to do, and sadly that meant shutting down this website for longer than I wanted. But fear not, because I am back, and just in time for Christmas. So [...]
In the UK social restrictions were lifted back in July - and while some people went all out from the very first day, others like me, took a much more cautious approach. Being mostly at home for 18 months has made me a bit of a recluse, and to be honest, a part of me [...]
Recently a friend of mine asked me for some help as her partner wanted to treat her to a nice hotel stay, and she wanted to know what kind of 'sexy hotels' I have stayed at - and this got me thinking as in the last few months I have done more hotel stays than [...]
I sit here, on a gloomy Wednesday morning, holding my usual way-too-sweet cuppa, staring out of the window at the constant rain and wind (the UK is experiencing the worst weather in forever) , and for once I am in a good mood! This may be controversial, but lockdown has done me some good - [...]
*picture is by Chasing The Tigers* With Lockdown 2.0 upon us in a few days, I did wonder whether there would be any point in reviewing this event or not, given that their next date, which was supposed to be in two weeks, has been postponed. After much deliverance, I decided that I can't let [...]
I guess when I imagined a time where my life would become virtual, I had the idea that it would be like something out of Blade Runner or Total Recall. Little did I know back then that my virtual social life would consist of business apps, people who don't know where the mute button is, [...]
Christmas Ball, December 2018. That was the last Torture Garden I attended. By then, TG had lost it soul venue, The Coronet, as was using the venue that every one and their mother was using [Electrowerks]. Events started to feel tired, monotonous and lacked an edge. It was then that I decided to bypass TG [...]
A Sense of Clarity 