Welcome to A Sense Of Clarity, my little corner in this vast space we call the internet. Here is where I discuss some of the things that matter to me the most. These tend to be fetish and the macabre, as I consider myself to be a little angel of darkness, or something around those lines.
I guess I should also say a few words about myself. In the fetish scene I am known as Lilith or Lady. I am in my early thirties, and have been living in London since I was around 15. I am originally from Spain, but travelled all over the world when I was younger due to my mother’s work. My fetish journey started when I was in my late teens, but it did not really kick off until much later. In fetish terms, I consider myself to be a true Switch and sometimes I identify as a Little. I am currently very happy in a monogamous relationship, but I do play on occasion at events with the permission of my OH. I also run classes in London on occasion on topics such as Dungeon 101, Sensory Play and Impact Play.
I tend to go to most of the best know fetish clubs in London, so if you do see me one night, don’t be shy and come and say hi. I love meeting new people, even though I can appear to be a bit shy at first.
If you are curious about attending a fetish event but unsure as to which one, or want to know more, then check my reviews below (in no particular order):
- My First Fetish Club (Anti Christ review)
- Club Sanctum
- Future Parties
- Fox & Badge (not really fetish, but it has a strong sensual tone to it)
- Klub Verboten
- Club Pedestal
- A Curious Invitation
- Torture Gardens
- Zara du Rose
- Kit Kat Club (Berlin)
And if you want to know what I am into, then check {The Kinks in Me} series:
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