Well, it seems finally our government is taking things a bit more seriously and closing down non-essential establishment, and asking people to stay home. I know ‘social distancing’ can be a challenge for many, especially if you live alone, but if you are lucky enough to live with your partner/s, then this can be the perfect opportunity to discover/introduce new things into your life, such as BDSM.
So, to liven the mood a bit, I will be writing a new series where I will suggest ways you can introduce BDSM in your life, or if you are already into it, new ways to keep the fun alive if you are stuck in a bit of a rut.
So my first suggestion is something very simple and perfect for newbies – “The Easter Egg Hunt”
I know with all this covid-19 talk going around, the last thing we are thinking about is Easter, but it is only around the corner and luckily people have not panicked bought the delicious Easter Eggs you get around this time of year. So, for this game you will need:
- A selection of small Easter eggs
- Permanent marker
- Blindfold/handkerchief or anything you can use to blindfold someone
- Sensation items [suggested list below]
The game is simple, take a few eggs (we used about 10) and get the person who is top/Dom to write a type of sensation on the wrap of each egg. Then hide it all over the flat/house/room. The other person/s then would have a limited time ( I had 8 minutes) to find as many eggs. Once the time is up, read up all the sensations collected and proceed to blindfold the bottom/sub to act upon these. SIMPLE!!!
So, what things could you write on the eggs? Well let me give you some examples for those who may not have any BDSM equipment at home.
- Ice cubes
- Microwavable heat packs
- Wax (BDSM friendly)
- Feathers
- Scratching
- Spanking
- Fork (dipped in ice cold water , run them down their backs and legs and watch their reactions!)
- Essential oils
- Taste (you can select items like strawberries, grapes, chocolates)
- Massage
- Pinching (nipples, ears, inner thighs..)
- Music/ Sound
The key here is to use your imagination and see what things you have around your house that can make this work. It is all about activating and engaging our senses.
If this your first time doing this, then this is a light-hearted game and by all means, get a drink down to ease the nerves. My OH and I were just in giggles as I was frantically looking around for these eggs. We have some BDSM toys, so our eggs had thinks like ‘flogging’, ‘violet wand’ and ‘rope’ in them, so like I said, use your imagination and let me know how it goes!
